2. *A message to women!*

  Knowledge is power when it comes to the opposite sex. Knowing what to expect before a formal introduction is the most important psychological tool you have as a human (woman) when you have nothing to rely on but your own judgment of someone character. Would you go on a job interview without knowing what position you’re applying for, and making sure you fit their requirements?  Would you drive to a destination without directions?  I think we all know the answer to those questions. So why get involved with a man when you truly don’t understand men?  Preparation is much better then isolation!  Isolating your mind from the truth and not being prepared for reality.  The reality is Good Men Do Cheat! Are you prepared for that? Most women aren’t, so they rely on pure hope; hope of believing they have a good men rather than taking some time to understand them! I “hope” this book helps you “understand!”
My sole reason for writing this book was to inform the uninformed, you women! My ultimate goal is to help women understand their worth a little more than they believe they do; therefore will preserve their hearts, and get it ready for the true man. This book allows you to become a fly on the wall listening in on a great big conversation held by us men. It picks up where females intuition peaks. Take what you want from your adventure, learn from it, and live by it, but in no way should you crucify all men over the information you have been allowed to learn.  The book titled “Good Men Do Cheat”, not “All Men Do Cheat”.  Do not make the mistake of confusing the two.. 
I fear for men after you women get a hold of this book. The fear is of women passing false, negative judgment on a good man. This book isn’t here to deter you from finding the true relationship, but to guide you away from the negative aspect of that so-called “good man”.  Ladies please do me this one favor, if you believe you have that true “good man” in your life, the one that flies above the radar of this book.  The one who may have done wrong in the past, but worked his way back up to being a real good man.  The one who made changes in his life to erase all the negative things he may have put your through while in a relationship with him. Please dispose of this book after reading. There’s no need for your mind to become anymore biased."

6. *Their television fantasy “she’s real in every way”*

In order to understand your “good man”, you have to think outside of the box.  That box is you.  Most women have little insecurities on the way they view their own physical (looks, size etc.) while small amount don't. Now that could be due to the way society perceives women on television and magazine. Either way, once a man is attracted to a person, no matter size shape etc. he's hooked. Now being the love in your man heart, and life, doesn't secure you fully. You may not be his only attraction! The commencement stage of your relationship, the physical is what attracted his mind, followed by his mental and spiritual attraction to you.  He becomes more easily arose both mentally and physically through time and your relationship growth. But somewhere along the lines of  a “long term relationship, fights, a little extra weight and him just being to use to you, the physical attraction takes a back seat if not dies 


8. *I do...Not!*

         “Looking into his future”
Most men fear of commitment comes from the fear of looking into the future. Having their lives planned, mapped out and put into some form of order, is not the true idea of a man. Men generally tend to be care- free when it comes to their lives and looking ahead. Structure and discipline enforced from someone, is not our ideal way to live life. We make our own rules, so when we break them, we expect no one to be angered or disappointed. So when the word “commitment” comes into play, we chock! Men tend to feel as if they will be some sort of compromises or change in their lives when choosing to commit to a woman. Some women believe that our main reason behind not wanting to be committed is that we lust for other women. Lusting and wanting other women are just two very small part of the big reason behind our fear of commitment. It has a lot more to do with having the feeling that everything in his life will now be in order… your order. The phrase “coming and going” now turns into “coming and staying” “He” soon turns into “We” And even if the transformation comes easy for him, there are just some habits he’ll find hard to drop, so he look for excuses! The blame game seems to be our only way out. “This is too much for me baby. I can’t give you what you’re looking for”
     


Excerpts of Chapters 2, 6,and 8
Beauty!